爱与尊严

女孩高傲地说： 如果你真的爱我，请在阳台底下呆上100天，证明你的爱。




男孩二话不说，就在阳台底下，拿了个凳子，坐了下来。

10天..

50天..

99天..

再有一天就要100天了，女孩轻轻挑开窗帘，偷看这位三个月多依然坐在那里呆着的男孩。

女孩正在为此而心动，突然的一幕，让她惊呆了：

只见那男孩，缓缓地直起身，夹起凳子，若无其事的走了。

女孩顿时心酸,。


99天，男孩欠缺的并不是耐心。


99天， 男孩恰如其分地表达了自己的深情，表达了对女孩的认真与等待。


又恰如其分地保留了自己的 ..  尊严 。



女孩们，若有个男生为你而等待，

请永远珍惜。






:')

A meaningful day

This few weeks I spent my night time so full and late . Yea get to know that I will going to far but non-sure outstation to study . Imma going to be involve in education field later on and ofcoz for part time tutor / teacher currently .  Yess i will be a teacher that you will never think of. lol


Spending the time full is actually to fulfill my time with besties and ofcoz my boy and family . I hope I have already prepare everything including my non-stable heart to leave ,Ohgosh please not the day :(

Well before the everything end I couldn't have time to think soo many , things surprising me today , I get my man to see my parents , lol I couldn't believe myself  -.- but it was too suddenly .

How this happened is , I was actually have a date with him at a certain time and he was reached by time,  so happened yet my daddy wanted me to help him to do some documentary e-filing purposely for his work and the reason is my typing speed is faster . ( yeaa Is faster compared him but not others and only he is very admiring my  ' normal ' speed  -.-)  So so so I have no idea cause of a lot lot of doc to key in and eventually due to common sense and worried  ,   I let my man come into my house to wait . This is what really happened so suddenly . And why I am so nervous and feel excited is ,it is the first time my daddy met my bf and they talked a lot  *faint

Feel warm when I know my family is starting to accept my life with love , I mean other than family and fren love . *shy  <3

Went for movie today , Street dance2 , not bad movie for those who love dance . How cool when traditional dance mixed with hip-hop and others new gen dance ! and I love those songs in
the show , felt to dance and high together ! sui!
Oh gosh I have probably get influenced by my hub 's friends / partner . -.-
We went to their office after movie. Purposing to follow and understand what actually they work , something called FOREX . Is something like investment and they work together with the team and get earning day after day , looks great and amazing team as I seen . they cooperate , shared , giving idea , discussing , presenting , they are serious but not stressed . Feel proud and great to know them , and I will support my hub no matter what situation he is , I trust and hope he will success for one day , he promised to open a tuition center since I love to teach , lol okay I answered him I AM WAITING ~ haaha .

Have to save money from now , I want my fav phone , fav camera and fav bag .

see you soon ! will keep my updates !:)

Appearance

Finally I appear .
Hey blogger I do miss my blogging life .
I disappeared here for the last few months because I was trying to keep my status update at facebook and yet keep my blog silently . Somehow I realized that it is not so benefit because I can't write on status to describe my feeling deeply every time every moment .

Will keep my update soon .
oh , not to inform purposely but to be sharing :  I am in a relationship (:

To trust and to hope   <3

Leave

Leave doesn't means no longer love.

Just the time to calm and think properly .

Both of us .

Why we're in love.

属于自己的宗教

每个人都有属于自己的宗教，信从某个或超过一个宗教一切随他人对某宗教的缘分。
身边朋友都有属于自己不同的宗教，理所当然的每个人对于某些宗教有缘，有些则无缘。
缘分的东西难以逼从，是你的就是你的。

我相信佛教，也相信基督教。
不是矛盾，而是我觉得我有我的理由相信，我和它们的缘分。

基督教我了解不多，只是相信。相信它的确是一个让人能获得改变的宗教。
基督教教会我们爱自己，做好事，不迷信，一切随天，随缘。有三餐温饱，祈祷。有幸福家庭，祈祷。邻国遇难，祈祷。
这是唯一于佛教相同的地方。




佛教是传至来自印度一位叫释迦摩尼佛的王子。9岁出家修行。得道成佛后，在印度向大众宣传自己证悟的真理，拥有越来越多的信徒，从而组织教团，形成佛教。
释迦摩尼领悟的真理，也就是流传 至今的哲学。所以，佛教是哲学，不是迷信。

佛教也有三宝，佛，法，僧

详细三宝，请点击：http://zhidao.baidu.com/question/213500396.html?fr=qrl&cid=208&index=4&fr2=query

佛教没有秘密，任何人不管低卑 ，穷人富人，孤儿老人，只要是有缘，只要相信，你可以拥有佛教的任何知识。

佛教是讲究要人深信因果，改过迁善，

能够依照佛所说的大乘经典，

了脱生死而出三界，

悟入生命的真谛，

看破宇宙的实相。 ------净空法师

朋友曾问我：死后灵魂往哪里出？要知道所以要去求道 。（问我的人同时种下了好因，因为她不希望我死后做游魂野鬼，一定有好报）

我不知道佛教要求道，回去问爸爸，爸爸说，求道来自于道教。
妈妈说我小时候也去过了求道，可我什么也不知道。
朋友说我不了解，其实不是我不了解，而是我了解不了。

佛法无边，为什么没有求道的人不能往西方极乐走？为什么没有被点传师开光的就一定做游魂野鬼？那穷人没办法去求道怎么办？那死去的婴儿小孩没机会求道就没有救了吗？ 为什么有秘密，为什么孤魂野鬼不能听?他们也是灵魂，灵魂其实也在和我们一起学佛。
也许有你们的答案吧 ：）

可是我相信最简单的，一切只能相信因果报应。
今世种的因，下世报的果。
今世你种什么因，下世你就报什么果。
我相信我种下好因，死后就会上西方。


往往看到的是破烂寺庙，没有白砖设计，没有两三层楼。
人们捐出来的捐款，都是捐给灾民孤儿。应该不会用来做为华丽佛楼吧？
我不能评价，因为那不是我捐的钱。


 死后灵魂去哪里？在哪里出来？佛说，那就要看你今世种的是什么因了。如果你没有做坏事，对得起天地良心的，绝对不会下畜生道，恶鬼道等等。

人死后灵魂从何处往生？
 
　　答：佛在经典里面说有很多部位。临命终时，仔细去勘验，如果这个灵魂是从脚心 离开，就是堕地狱。怎么勘验？全身都冷了，脚底还有温度，这就是说他从脚底走的。从膝盖走的是饿鬼道，从肚脐走的是畜生道，从心口走的是人道，从头顶走的 是天道，往生西方极乐世界也是从头顶上走的。如果真的是生天、是往生，神识走得很快。凡是生到善道，身体一定是柔软的，不会是僵硬的；有的时候一、两个星 期，身体还是软的。

－－－净空法师

写这一篇文章，其实鼓起了很大勇气。
不是我对其他宗教有意见。而是我生活遇到的，实在太多太多了。

我的大姑从她50岁开始相信道教。她每天都往佛堂跑，卖完饭后就回家冲凉，然后丢下孩子在家不煮饭也不管教。孩子虽然长大可是瞬时间他们觉得缺少了什么。大姑赚到的钱都给了佛堂建庙煮饭。好像整个人都变了，自己的家人都不管了。她欠下了许多债务可是都不还清，反而把钱捐出。

大姑和我三伯每次为了佛教道教起争执。（是没有这个必要我觉得）
直到8年前大姑病逝了，佛堂的人没有一个来探望她。

可能这件事因人而异。 没有特别的针对性。

所以说，不是不相信就是不了解，就是不会想，不懂事。
我们有我们的想法，个人的想法。
有些东西是随个人的缘分的哦  : )








虽然我们都来自不同的宗教不同信仰可是我们确实是不折不扣的好朋友/ 好亲戚。: D




以上文篇，只属个人意见，若得罪，敬请原谅。

Short post ❤

New post here.
No time for me to update soon due to the busy preparation of STPM.

Well.
One and a half year I had enjoy much and it is now my turn to face my STPM

I like photo shooting actually and when should I free to have chance?I'm busy and sorry to my friend who invited me for being make up model or shooting.

I enjoy it really/

❤

Human in love.

Sometimes we wish our partner to be perfect, yet still have something we are not satisfy for.

We understand no one can be perfect and same goes to ourself. 

We understand no matter how much a person treated good or even best but if we have no feeling on that person, all the thing done is just go for waste. 

We understand no matter how much the person pay for heart but if we have no idea to love , all the thing done is just useless. 

We know how much the love precious .

We understand love is feeling , is care,  is eternal . It is not a deal.

Or try to look up at the sky. How wide the sky , how wide the world,how wide the destiny.

We though we can meet someone when we lost someone. 

We though we can meet the right we can meet ideal lover. 

But we didn't realized , although destiny is wide , or we can meet many person in our life ,or even our ideal lover . But the places of our heart is small , small until it is even belong to only ONE person. And often this person is not perfect to you.

This is why some people sacrifice their life because of love. 

Love is blind,

Because we are human. 

27 August 11

August 27 , I made this chocolate cake almost half a day .
See what are the result shown.

Look not nice but taste nice seriously !LOL I am not used to baking but decorate is my favour.


Besides ,bought her a nice novel written by famous author  徐有彬

BOught this from ' One Book One World ' Book Fest yesterday. Quite crowded of people ! And many book / stationary having greeeat discount ! worth it .27th August -- 4 September 2011 , friends go to have a visit , just Rm2.50 per person for entrance .

Update again soon , Stay tuned :D